Monday, June 30, 2025

National Qualifier!

Cooper!! Qualified all 3 of his events to USA Diving junior nationals! He qualified all 3 from regionals (there are 12 regionals across the country) to zones last month, but last weekend was the big test-- could he make it from zones to nationals as a 13 year-old competing in the 14/15 age group (he has a poorly timed dive birthday). HE COULD!!

He got third place in platform, which was AMAZING because the top 3 finishers from each zone make it to the national semifinal round and don't have to compete in prelims. He finished 4th place in both 3-meter and 1-meter, which is still so awesome because the top 10 in each zone (there are 6 zones) qualify to nationals. 4th place means he will have to compete in prelims for those events, but last year, he made to semifinals out of a prelim, so he knows he can do it (to make semis at nationals, he needs to be in the top 6 from the prelim).

Competition was stiff, and look how close he was to 3rd place in 3-meter:


He was amazing, and we are just SO PROUD of him. (I mean duh we are proud of him regardless of how he places).

He and Ben flew to Cleveland early on Thursday where Cooper warmed up at the facility before they even checked into their hotel. (Madison sent them to Cleveland by way of Charlotte, which is also where they flew for regionals and where Ben flew on his way to Charleston and back-- that airport is practically his new home). Then he warmed up in the morning, dove in competition in the afternoon, and warmed up again on Friday and repeated that schedule on Saturday. Sunday morning, he did early warm ups and competed in his last event just after lunch-- then he and Ben went straight from his last dive to the airport-- no time for a medal, even. Ben said it was kind of terrible when Cooper asked him in the cab if he finished in second place (because of dive order, that's what the score board was showing when they left) and Ben had to be like um, no, you were 4th by .10.

It was a fabulous weekend!

Back home, Minnie finally went down the water slide by herself-- and she liked it so much that she did it about 150 times in a row over the course of 3 days. It was also finally warm enough for me to get in the water, so she got to live her dream of playing in the deep end. She doesn't actually need help on the diving board, but she feels like she does. I think in a few days, I can just sit on the edge and watch, but for now, she prefers to jump when Jack or I are waiting under the board-- but we don't grab her or help her get to the side.

Harry had his adorable girlfriend over for the weekend, so they did fun Madison things. Jack worked a TON because he gets his wisdom teeth out next week and has to take some time off, and Dorothy went to a water park with friends, which was fab because then I didn't have to go, but she can check that summer box.

Yay summer!










Friday, June 27, 2025

5 on a Friday

 1. Taking a daily med is really hard to remember. I was on birth control from ages 18-26, and I remembered that, but I haven't had a daily med since then, except for a couple of brief encounters with the mini pill after a couple pf the kids (did not like it). Now I need to take a progesterone pill every night, and I am failing to remember it. Which! Is kind of stupid because not taking it while on an estrogen patch can literally cause uterine cancer. I also want to remember to take fish oil and B6 in the morning, along with some fiber and then magnesium and a calming tea at night. But if I mess up my routine even a little. bit, I forget everything. And summer! Is the season of a messed up routine.

2. It is hot, and I hate hot.

3. Coop carried on an entire bag of towels (FIVE) because he likes the towels he likes when he's diving.



4. Dorothy came to the pool after dance the other night (SHE HAS A SIX HOUR DAY, and I am definitely door dashing her dinner every week on this day because that's too long to eat a lackluster packed dinner that's been stuffed in her dance bag with her extra shoes on her one and only break) and swam with her ballet bun, hair net and all.



5. Can you believe Minnie did her own makeup?



Thursday, June 26, 2025

The long way home

 Hello from New! Air! Conditioner! DAAAAAAAY. Is this how I wanted to spend a bunch of dollarz? No! I actually wanted to take a little trip with Ben for our 20th anniversary. LOLz not happening. But maybe I can wear winter jammies to bed tonight? And also! He is on a trip roght now, and I? Am still talking about the one I took last week, so it could be worse.

I am currently drinking coffee in bed waiting for Jack to get home with... MORE COFFEE, so this seems like a perfect time to mention that we stopped in my beloved Oxford, Ohio, on our way home from Charleston, and it was a delight.

Quick stop at our favorite gas station on the way

I made Ben and Dorothy walk through campus even though it was one billion degrees

We looooved this weird little basement bar in grad school, but it was hot and stuffy and crowded, so we took a pic and moved on.
Students have a tradition of naming their houses, and I loved this one that we passed on the walk uptown from our hotel (on Beech street)
More weird Insta-art
A fave bar that was playing the most perfect 2001 playlist


Bagel and Deli Shop, my favorite restaurant ever (I am so high brow) and the real reason we always drive through Oxford



A quick stop for incense for my mom and then on to GAS STATION MILKSHAKES


We closed out the night with the drive thru liquor store's (we walked) best bottle of prosecco (LOL is was $12) while Dorothy swam at the hotel.
And! Found a new donut shop on our way out of town.

One more Starbucks run for the trip!













Wednesday, June 25, 2025

Re-entry

 I have 25 minutes each day with no children (while Minnie is at swim lessons and C and D are at summer league dive team practice). This morning, we were 2 minutes late, so that's 23 minutes. And then I spent 10 making a Target drive up order because the buy 3 get one free mini deal seemed perfect for restocking my pool toiletries. So. I have 13 minutes to work on this post.

Re-entry has SUCKED, friends.

We came home to a boiling hot, humid house because our 15 year-old AC (can you even believe this house is 15??) is broken. Soooo looks like the 20 year anniversary gift is actually an air conditioner. Neat.

I also only just now got caught up on laundry since Jack was also away for a week and does not pack light. And I am not even actually caught up, because I haven't changed sheets since before we left (except our beds, which I changed the day I got home) but I am loathe to run the dryer all day until the AC works again.

We are missing SO MANY POOL TOWELS that I think I am going to make everyone scan a wrist band to check one out in the morning.

Our summer schedule is intense. LOL. That's a polite description.

Cleveland became a Ben and Cooper flying trip because someone has to be home to welcome the new AC. Also, I am not leaving the house without ALL OF  the children again because the mess? NOT WORTH IT YOU GUYS.

Swim lesson Minnie:

Scholar Minnie
87 and humid. INDOORS.
I missed walking this dog. Also! my hotty hots fit again!!
I was told that OF COURSE this glass would make it upstairs to the dishwasher. Huh.
Dive meet spectator
Yay!
Yay!
Big brothering
Jack also competed and did awesome, but he is too cool for a pic. We got there at 4 and stayed until NINE because the kids were in 3 different groups. Woof! Minnie is a trooper, and the pool had a baby pool open the whole meet thank god. Literally. I was so grateful.


Saturday, June 21, 2025

Last vacay day

 Ben met us in Charleston yesterday, and it was SO NICE to relax and not worry about logistics. 

Before he got there, Dorothy and I went downtown to sightsee and shop one last time, only we overestimated how much time we had before his flight landed and had to kind of hurry to the airport-- oops.

SO HOT.
So much cool old stuff

Loveshack Fancy
BEST CHOCOLATES
Went to Hill House twice and couldn't quite pull the trigger on a nap dress. Should I though?
I swear my mom's old Barbie had this exact outfit.



We needed some Big Dad Energy in our lives-- like at Brandy Melville when Ben walked in while we were still shopping, saw that the line to check out was almost out the door, and joined it so that when Dorothy got done trying on, he'd be almost to the cash register. 

Living the dad dream (lol) at Altar'd State

We got dressed up ad went out for one more fun dinner before we had to head home. **chef's kiss**