Thanks for the room suggestions!
We have pretty much maxed out all available space in this house (that seemed SO BIG when we moved in with 2 tiny boys and another on the way).
For reference, we live in a 5-bedroom, 3-bathroom, 2500-square-foot ranch with a finished walkout basement. And we probably will live here forever and ever because 5 kids in college, bananas housing market, etc etc etc.
Harry and Jack have shared a bedroom since Jack was born-- even when we had TWO UNUSED BEDROOMS in this house, but lately, they have been chafing at the constant togetherness. Roommates! Classmates! Colleagues! It was a lot.
They used to share the room that is Dorothy's currently, and baby Coop had Minnie's room. (and since he was still cooking when we moved in, Harry and Jack were technically roomies with THREE unused bedrooms!) Their bedroom downstairs was the guest room, and the 5th bedroom was a playroom (hence the vinyl floor).
Then! We had Dorothy, who moved into the nursery. Coop moved into Harry and Jack's room, and they moved to the guest room. (A slight upgrade when they outgrew their train table (LOL))
Then! We had Minnie, who took the nursery. Dorothy bumped Coop to the toy room, and that's where we've been for 3 years: Dorothy and Minnie up, the three boys down, the 3 little kids with their own rooms, and Harry and Jack sharing for FIFTEEN YEARS. We have had little interludes where D moved herself in with C, both in his upstairs room and in the former toy room, but she has always maintained her own room as well.
I LIKE the girls up/boys down split right now because the upstairs kid bath is also the guest bath, and it is easy to maintain as a little-kid-only zone. Harry and Jack are murder on a bathroom, and I love that theirs is tucked away. So, I was reluctant to move Dorothy and Minnie together and give a boy the other upstairs room. ESPECIALLY because the upstairs rooms are very small, so it made not as much sense for 2 kids to share one. Dorothy and Minnie COULD move downstairs to the former toy room, but Minnie is not really downstairs material yet-- but I could see this working down the road with the upstairs bedrooms for kids home on college breaks, etc.
ANYWAY.
Longer story long, we moved Coop and Jack together and gave Harry his mojo dojo casa room (thus named because we bought NOTHING NEW AT ALL for him and filed his closet with extra sheets and blankets in storage containers, took all of Jack's favorite stuff off the walls and covered the holes with flags and pennants, etc.)
We ONLY bought a rug, Command hooks, under-the-bed boxes, storage bins for sheets and blankets, some power strips, a lamp, throw pillows, one single storage bin for an old bookshelf, and voice activated LED bulbs for the new room-- under $250. I am THRILLED that it only took 48 hours to complete the switch and shocked by how much stuff we re-used. We need to think about a long term solution to the old bunk in Harry's room. Ideally, that room would be Jack's when Harry goes to college but would also be Harry's when he comes home. But the bunk bed has a low weight limit on top, so it has really outlived its usefulness. Maybe sturdier bunks? Maybe 2 twins and less other stuff in the room? Not sure yet and also not in a rush.
The new rooms:
Same bed he’s had since he was like 5! A chair from his grandparents’ old house in IL! IKEA Expedit shelves worth their weight in gold! Jack’s old desk AND his desk because eff it!
Coop and Jack:
Yay! Room dynamics are tricky in families with larger numbers of kids, and a change is often as good as a rest. It's amazing what mixing and matching from other spaces can accomplish.
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DeleteNice work! I think this makes sense especially with H being on the sort of cusp of (gulp) of moving out when he graduates. I'm 1 of 5 also and our house was so similar - 2 bedrooms upstairs, but just 1 bath, and 3 bedrooms downstairs with just 1 bath. But there was a 17 year age gap from youngest to oldest. I shared a room with my sister for a number of years and the big boys each got their own room until the oldest went to college. Then my sister moved into that room, maybe a while after he was in college? We didn't really have rooms at home for kids when they came home from college since we just really needed the bedrooms for others living in the house. I don't know where people stayed with they came home? Maybe my sister slept in my room? Hmmm. That was a lifetime ago!
ReplyDeleteWe have 3 bedrooms and 2 bathrooms upstairs - one bathroom for the boys, one bathroom in our primary bedroom. And then we have a guest suite downstairs which is also my office. I think/hope we will always maintain this set-up but we'll see. Eventually maybe Paul will want to take over the guest suite and we'll turn his room into a guest room. But that is a very long time from now! It would be kind of weird to have my kids 2 floors away from me so I feel like that's not something I'd do until they are older? Oh and we also have a mainfloor powder room so we have twice as many bathrooms as my parents had and less than half as many kids!! But the basement bathroom doesn't get used all that much, a main floor powder room was one of our "must haves" when we were house hunting and I do love that the boys have their own bathroom. But wow we have a lot of bathrooms.
that sounds like such a good set up for you! we would really like to finish our storage room into a den that H could sleep in when he's home and add a bathroom between that den and Coop/Jack's room., but we;ll see. 3 bathrooms is fine for us (as long as no kids use mine LOL), but one more would be pretty great.
DeleteMy husband is one of five and he talks about the room arrangements a lot. Three boys, two girls. There were three bedrooms available for the children. The girls always shared. The boys were a problem. Sound familiar? LOL.
ReplyDeleteit really does!! that 4th kid bedroom really helps tho
DeleteNicely done! The novelty alone should hold everyone for a bit?
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DeleteI am hella confused because perimenopausal brain fog, but YAY. Any room that fits an armchair is a good room. Very resourceful on your part. And yes, anything new is always fun for a while just because it's new.
ReplyDeleteOh, I also love kids sharing rooms by choice even when there were empty rooms.
ReplyDeletethey've been besties for sooo long-- I hope this is a blip
DeleteI think my head would have exploded at the logistics of all of this. Personalities. Bathroom cleanliness. Location. Relationships. Yikes. Good on you for figuring it out and so darn fast, too!
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